Whether you’ve been with your S.O. for five years or five months, sex can get stale pretty easily. It’s nothing between you and your partner; you could be freaky as all hell and still get a little bored after enough time goes on. If you feel like you’ve tried everything—new locations, scheduled sex, sex bucket list, kinky new positions—and are ready to go all in to make your sex life a blast, we’ve got just the thing: the We-Vibe Chorus, a couples sex toy that’ll lead to explosive orgasms for both of you.
About the Vibrator
The We-Vibe Chorus is a C-shaped couples vibrator that has two “arms”: an insertable arm and an arm that lays on the clitoris. This vibrator is largely made for penis-in-vagina sex, but I definitely got creative and was able to find ways to use it with another person who had a vagina. You insert the “flat” arm into the vagina and bend the other to lay on your clitoris. The arms are really bendy, so you can make this fit your body. Then, your partner can enter you with their penis (or a finger or strap-on) above the toy in missionary or below it in doggy style. It sounds complicated, but trust me: It’s pretty intuitive when you’re actually trying it.
The insertable end is 3 inches, and the vibrator itself is submergible in water. The remote, however, is only water-resistant, so while it’s OK if you splash it, I wouldn’t set it inside the bathtub with you.
One of the coolest parts about this vibrator is the charging case. I live alone, so charging my vibrators out in the open is not a problem for me, but I remember the days when I’d have to sneakily charge my vibes underneath my bed so that my roommate wouldn’t see. Instead of plugging this in with your traditional USB charger, both the vibe and the remote sit inside a charging case that you plug into a computer or wall outlet. This keeps things nice and tidy and makes it a bit easier to charge your toy where someone might see it. A full charge takes up to two hours, but it has already lasted me a looong time.
If you connect the We-Vibe to your smartphone, you can download the app and unlock the Touch-Sense modes. This lets you control the strength of the vibrations, detecting your shared movements with your partner. There are three modes that you can toggle on with your smartphone. This interactive feature definitely adds a bit of spontaneity to your sex.
This has a beautiful, clean design that doesn’t feel intimidating or laughable when I brought it into the bedroom with a partner. The best part of this vibrator is the customization. The vibrator bends to practically a 180-degree angle, so you can move it around to make it fit your body. Then, once you place it into its position, it stays put the entire time. I didn’t have to reach down and fix it during play, which made the experience a lot more seamless. I could focus on the pleasure rather than fixing it every five seconds.
Based on the size of the toy, it makes fitting your partner’s penis or strap-on a bit more snug, if you get what I’m saying. While this could be a pro, it also was a bit difficult for me at first. Once I got the hang of it and used some lube (more on that below), I got comfortable and we were on our merry way.
On top of the design of the toy, you have the remote. This was genius and so helpful during play. Because this vibrator stays in place, it would be a chore to constantly have to touch it if you wanted to change the rhythm or intensity. Enter: the remote. Keep this next to you in bed (or wherever you are) and you can easily change the vibrations. This was really fun to use with a partner because one person can be in charge of the remote and change things up, keeping your sex feeling extra spontaneous.
This vibrator comes in four different colors, and if you’re wondering why color even matters, let me tell you, it makes finding this in a sea of vibrators in the dark a lot easier.
It took me a second to figure out how to use this vibrator, but once I did, it was smooth sailing. When I first got it in the mail, I admittedly looked at it and, given my lack of experience with couples vibes, wondered how on Earth this would work. I looked at the manual, and my eyes bulged out of my head. “How is that fitting with that?” Once the shock subsided, I put it to the test and found that it was a lot easier than I thought it would be. Because it stays in place, I only had to spend a little bit of time maneuvering before finding the right position.
When you use this, make sure you have lube handy. Silicone can kind of eat up your body’s natural lubricant, so if you’re using this toy and notice that there’s a bit more friction (not the good kind), use a water-based lube to get things moving again.
Based on my past go-arounds with sex toys, I’m used to clitoral vibrators that vibrate so hard they about fall out of my hand when I turn them on. When I powered this one on, I realized that it wasn’t necessarily as vigorous as the previous vibes I’ve used solo. But make no mistake—more power doesn’t always equal more pleasure. This vibrator served up the perfect amount of intensity for partner sex and—let me tell you—it got intense as hell.
The clitoral arm gets a stronger vibration than the internal arm, which makes sense for a toy like this. I only wish I could increase the clitoral vibration a little more to make this a bit more useful in partner play with another woman. But overall, the vibrations are perfect for this kind of toy.
Aside from my own pleasure, this was certainly a lovely experience for my partner as well. If your partner has never felt vibrations against their penis like this, be warned: They’ll be comin’ back for more.
The Touch-Sense modes that you activate using your smartphone are an interactive way to add a little bit more vibration and spontaneity. Fumbling with my phone during sex was not my favorite thing, but the shared pleasure my partner and I got out of it was worth it.
I hesitated to even talk about the sound of this vibrator because it’s so quiet. I can definitely still hear something, but I tested it by leaving it going in the other room and walking out, and I couldn’t hear a peep. While it’s inserted, you can hear a light buzz, but if you’re dirty talking and moaning, you’ll probably forget it’s even there (that is, until you have the best orgasm of your life).
This is not your mother’s vibrator for a lot of reasons, but the price is the biggest one. Trust me: I know this is expensive, but I think of it in a few ways that make the price a bit more palatable. First of all, this baby is good quality. I can’t imagine the silicone ever breaking down, and I predict this will last years into my sex life. Heck, I might even still have this on my wedding day (which is many, many years in the future).
Being a partner vibrator, this is something you can both get a lot of use out of. This is easily something you could split the price of or treat yourselves to as a gift.
Do I think it’s worth the price? Definitely, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t a bit hard to swallow.
Hello, best orgasm of my life! As far as pleasure goes, this took my sex life to new heights (not to get into details, but I mean literally here). I could see myself using this whenever my partner and I are feeling a little “blah” and want to amp it up a bit. I loved that we could both get something out of it, and taking this little step to boost our sex life actually made us closer as a couple. While the price tag shocked me and using it with another partner with a vagina requires some creativity, the customization, design, and intensity of this vibrator were enough to put it at the top of my list.
This post is sponsored by Lovehoney, but all of the opinions within are those of The Everygirl editorial board.
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